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Marriage is indeed an expression of a commitment to a relationship between two individuals.  The men and women who take the bold step to become one regardless of their origins, faiths, races, and ethnicities must be applauded. They are setting a new standard on how to live in harmony despite their differences. They are practicing true pluralism – that is respecting the otherness of the other and accepting the given (God/Nature) uniqueness of each other.

Marriage is a union of two individuals for happiness and harmonious living

Has anyone ever asked what is it that God really wants?

God wants nothing more than harmony in his creation. Because he created everything in balance he expects us to preserve or restore it when it is off.

Look at the universe, everything is programmed precisely! The moon revolves around the earth and the earth goes around the sun accurately.  The seasons are programmed and the plants and animals have a determined cycle of birth and death. Within the human body, different organs work cohesively for normal functioning (with of course built in anomalies) of the body. However, he did not program us how to relate to each other and live with each other. He gave us complete freedom to chart our own course of harmony with the other.  God is happiest when two people can rise above their differences and live in harmony.

Interfaith marriages are becoming the new norm of society. In a few years, one out of two marriages would be of interfaith. Yes, this is across the board, whether you are a Muslim, Jew, Hindu, Christian, Sikh, Baha’i, Atheist, or the other. According to the Pew survey, 40% of people of faiths will be marrying a person of another faith, it is higher among Jews, it’s 50%.

I am blessed to have officiated ceremonies with religious tones of both traditions of the couples, be it. Jewish-Christian, Hindu-Christian, Bahai-Jewish, Hindu-Jewish, Atheist-Jain, and several other combinations.
Being a Muslim, I am pleased to have officiated weddings for Muslims in a variety of combinations; Muslim-Christian,  Muslim-Jewish, Muslim-Hindu, Muslim-Mormon, Muslim-Sikh, Muslim-Jain, Muslim-Buddhist and Muslim and an Atheist.

There is a beautiful verse in the Quran, 30:21, “And among His signs is that He created mates for you from among yourselves so that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you love and compassion. In these are signs for people who reflect.”  


The marriage is between two individuals and the family’s support and cheers are important.  I will be happy to talk with parents or guardians if they are reluctant.

  1. The initial conversation with the Wedding Officiant Dr. Mike Mohamed Ghouse
  2. The Bride and Groom express their desire to get married out of free will.
  3. A conversation about the differences and how they would handle.
  4. The Bride/ Groom can share a part of their social, religious or cultural tradition.
  5. The couple can create their own new tradition or enhance the existing one
  6. A draft outline of the ceremony will be prepared by the Officiant.
  7. The couple will review and modify the outline to suit their wants and needs.
  8. The officiant will perform the wedding ceremony per agreed outline.
  9. The wedding will start on time and close on time.


The Ceremony will be based on the process worked out between the couple and the officiant, and it varies from couple to couple.

  1. Interfaith greetings to include people of different faith traditions.
  2. Appreciating the bold steps the bride and groom have taken
  3. Acceptance of each other as his/her spouse
  4. Exchange of Rings
  5. Pronouncement as husband and wife
  6. Signing the marriage registration papers
  7. A short customized Sermon to fit the tradition(s) chosen by the couple
  8. Prayer ( again from one or two traditions)
  9. Other rituals that parents desire, or the couples want can be included


It is disappointing to the potential brides and grooms that their clergy or a parent invariably insists on the other person to convert to their faith tradition, some do, and some fake it and some are not comfortable with the idea at all. Being truthful is the greatest value of all civilizations.

When a couple is deeply committed to marrying, they go ahead and get married any way but sorely miss out on the ceremony. Over the years, I have seen too many couples miss out on the joy of that additional sense of completeness that comes with a religious tone in the ceremony. Marriage is between two individuals, and their families and friends ought to be supporters and cheerleaders to celebrate and complete their joy.

As a Pluralist, I have chosen to officiate the weddings of such couples to reflect the essence of Bride and Groom’s religious and cultural traditions. I laud such couples who embrace genuine humanity by respecting the otherness of others and accepting each other’s uniqueness. If the couple prefers to give that little extra joy to the religiosity of their parents, relatives, and friends, the sermon would include reflections and essence of the faiths of the couple.

I am blessed to have performed some uniquely beautiful combination of weddings; Jewish Bride and a Christian groom; Muslim bride and Jain groom, Hindu Bride and Muslim groom, Christians Bride and Atheist groom….. it was such a joy to see their families cheer at the end.

God is nothing but the cause that created everything we see, feel, smell, think, see and enjoy. People of religion call him by various names and those who do not subscribe to the idea of God don’t have to call anything.


Mike Ghouse is a member of the American Marriage Ministries, a non-profit established in Washington State in 2009.

“We provide all people the ability to celebrate marriage and other religious functions according to their beliefs. We believe that this is an innate human right and is also protected by the 1st Amendment. Our values come from the understanding that all people, whether religious or not, have deep personal values and should be treated with respect, acceptance, and understanding.”

Marriage is a celebration that brings people together, and we want to extend that ethos further by being a church comprised of a wide cross-section of people that have found common ground in the service of bringing people together.

To begin, the legal dimension to officiating a wedding simply involves completing a piece of paper, the marriage license. The marriage license is the legal document of marriage. It is filed for by the couple from their local government prior to the wedding.

The role of the minister is to conduct the wedding, have the couple present their marriage license, make sure that the information is correct, and complete the license. The couple then returns the completed license back to its office of issuance.

Personally, Mike is committed to building a Cohesive America and offers pluralistic solutions on issues of the day. He is a professional speaker, thinker and a writer on pluralism, interfaith, politics, and civic affairs.

The Creator* has created everything in balance and harmony,  and every element of the universe is interconnected and interdependent. Chief Seattle, a Native American said this perfectly, “All things are connected. Whatever befalls the earth befalls the sons of the earth. The man did not weave the web of life; he is merely a strand in it. Whatever he does to the web, he does it to himself.”

What does God want? He wants to see that his creation remains intact and functions smoothly. He has programmed the moon to go around the earth in unbelievable precision, and the earth has been going around the Sun for millions of years. The change of seasons, the power of light, and the need for darkness is all programmed and work together.

Even the human (or animal) body functions cohesively, each organ plays its part in the normal functioning of the body. However, what is not programmed is our attitudes and behavior.  Each one of us is unique with our own thumbprint, eye print, taste buds, DNA, and that uniqueness creates conflict in three areas; one’s space, sustenance, and nurturance.

God loves us like a mother loves her children, teacher loves her students, and as a chef loves his patrons,  he gives us the guidance (religion or common sense) to restore that equilibrium, that is all he wants and nothing more.


God loves the harmony between humans and his creation, and marriage enhances that harmony. Someday we may find out what attracts a man to a woman or vice-versa, like a magnet two individuals come together to be one with each other.  Religion, region or race become secondary when two people fall in love with each other. This is what God loves, two people becoming a source of harmony and happiness to each other.

Mike is a frequent guest on Sean Hannity show on Fox TV, and a commentator on national radio networks, he contributes weekly to the Texas Faith Column at Dallas Morning News and regularly at Huffington post, and several periodicals across the world. The blog www.TheGhousediary.com is updated daily. Two books are poised to be released this year on Pluralism in America, and Americans Together building a cohesive America.

Dr. Mike Ghouse
Wedding Officiant
Washington. D.C.
Text (214) 325-1916

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